I will differ with enblethen just a little here....
Our family has been towing all manner of trailers for at least 50 years. Because it was the standard then, we always use an SAE-J560b set. On E-trailer this all the way at the bottom of the page and it is the only one that is an accepted international standard. They label it as heavy duty truck. It is what I have in my coach and I carry a spare plug and some pig tails in case I have to two something else.
Matt
Matt & Mary Colie
A sailor, his bride and their black dogs (one dear dog is waiting for us at the bridge) going to see some dry places that have Geocaches in a coach made the year we married.