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lost my campin buddy

FreeLanceing
Explorer II
Explorer II
Like so many others here I have enjoyed camping with my dog. Scooter was his name. I have been divorced for 20 years now and had that dog for the last 18. We have been to Ca and back 5 times. SD more than I can count, same for the UP of Mi. We spent a winter building a log cabin in Az. Spent a week in SF overlooking the bay. He rode the street cars. The last 10 years or so I took him to work with me every day he could make it. 4 years ago they gave him 3-6 mo to live so I got my other dog. I built him a handicap ramp so he could get around. In the end he was totally blind and could not walk 6 ft without resting. I am going to Alaska this summer and there was no way he could make that trip. After consulting with our friend his vet, we decided it was time. He was in pain and no longer enjoyed life. That was the longest drive of my life. 8 miles to the vets office in a driving snow storm. He his at peace, I was truly blessed to have such a great companion for the last 18 years. He was only 10 lbs but had a heart and soul as big as a bowling ball. We should all be so lucky to own a dog like that.
Thanks Ben
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Essay
Explorer
Explorer
I feel for you. Dogs are loyal friends. Even excited to greet you again if you only went out on the front porch to get the newspaper!

DoneItAll
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Explorer
Sorry to hear that you've lost your friend. After experiencing that pain too many times, my wife and I decided never again. We'll no longer be keeping a four-legged companion. The losses have become too great.

John
John & Harriet on the beautiful Eastern Shore of Maryland
2008 F450 4X4 Crew Cab
2017 Lance 2375 Travel Trailer

stickbowjoe
Explorer
Explorer
Good advice, Abslayer-

Gotta get a pup before the old one passes, though.

For me, it is very difficult to get another dog while I'm grieving. Seems like betrayal.

Sally is 3 now, and I am thinking of getting a pup.

Heck, she misses Samson too.

Joe
2012 Ram 3500 diesel, dually
2013 Lance 850
Pretty good truck, pretty good camper.
Just Sally (German Shorthair) and me,
full timing, and shooting and catching
most of our meat.

TTBeachBum
Explorer
Explorer
I am so sorry to read that you lost your buddy. It is heart breaking how short of a time they share with us. Words and time don't really help, but other distractions do.

gingerK
Explorer
Explorer
I am so very sorry for the loss of your Scooter. It's always tough to let them go. You did right by him. Bless you.

tomve
Explorer
Explorer
Sorry to hear. They are not just pets, they are family members!
'13 F350 CC SRW 4x4 PS SB
'04 Lance 820

Dog_Folks
Explorer
Explorer
To the original poster and all that have lost special friends this may help:

THE LAST WILL AND TESTAMENT OF AN EXTREMELY DISTINGUISHED DOG

I, DOG , because of the burden of my illness and realizing the end of my life is near, do hereby bury my Last Will and Testament in the mind of my Master. She will not know it is there until after I am dead. Then, remembering me in her loneliness, she will suddenly know of this testament, and I ask her to inscribe it as a memorial to me.

I have little in the way of material things to leave. Dogs are wiser than men. They do not set great store upon things. They do not waste their days hoarding property. They do not ruin their sleep worrying about how to keep the objects they have not. There is nothing of value I have to bequeath except my love and my faith. These I leave to all those who have loved me, to my Master, who I know will mourn me the most, but if I should list all those who have loved me, it would force my Master to write a book. Perhaps it is vain of me to boast when I am so near death, which returns all beasts and vanities to dust, but I have always been an extremely exceptional dog.

I ask my Master to remember me always but not to grieve for me too long. In my life I have tried to be a comfort to her in time of sorrow and a reason for added joy in her happiness. It is painful for me to think that even in death I should cause her pain. Let her remember that, while no dog ever had a happier life, I have now grown ill and pained. I should not want my pride to sink to a bewildered humiliation. It is time for me to say "good-bye". It will sorrow me to leave her but not sorrow me to die. Dogs do not fear death as men do. We accept it as part of life, not as something alien and terrible which destroys life. What will come to me after death? I will be in a place where one is always young; where I will someday be joined by companions I have known in life; where I will romp in lovely fields with those that have gone before me; where every hour is mealtime; where in long evenings there are fireplaces with logs forever burning, and one curls oneself up and remembers the old brave days on earth and the love of one's Master.

This is much to expect but peace, at least, is certain, and a long rest for these weakened limbs. And eternal sleep is perhaps, after all, the best.

One last request I earnestly make. I ask her, for love of me to have another. It would be a poor tribute to my memory never to have another DOG. What I would like to feel is that, having once had me, she cannot live without one! I have never had a narrow spirit. I have always held that most dogs are good. Some dogs are better than others--like me--and so I suggest a rescue dog. She can hardly be as well bred or as mannered or as distinguished and beautiful as I, but my Master must not ask the impossible. She will do her best, I am sure, and even her inevitable defects will help keep my memory green. To her I bequeath my collar and leash. I leave her my place in the car which I loved so much and wish for her long rides with open windows.

One last word of farewell, dear Master. Whenever you think of me, say to yourself with regret but also with happiness in your heart at the remembrance of my happy life with you, "She is the one who loved us and whom we loved." No matter how deep my sleep, I shall hear you, and not all the power of death can keep my spirit from wagging a grateful tail.
Our Rig:
2005 Dodge 3500 - Dually- Cummins
2006 Outback 27 RSDS

We also have with us two rescue dogs. A Chihuahua mix & a Catahoula mix.

"I did not get to this advanced age because I am stupid."

Full time since June 2006

abslayer
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Explorer
So sorry to hear.
Had same experience as you and had a broken heart just like you must have.
Here is what my wife did with out me knowing as I would have not when along with this.
After about a month she when out and got a 2 pups same breed and came home and put this little guy in my lap.
In about 2 hours of being licked I was cured and transfer all my love to this new friend.
You need to do the same;)
Few months later my 2 boys

stickbowjoe
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Explorer
Great stuff, all.

Dogs are sure-enough a wonderful blessing.

Travelnutz, my Sally talks in the morning as she yawns.

She mostly says "eeewyeyoooongahhhh!", but it varies.

She never says "moron" though.

I am grateful for that.

I say that to myself often enough.

Joe
2012 Ram 3500 diesel, dually
2013 Lance 850
Pretty good truck, pretty good camper.
Just Sally (German Shorthair) and me,
full timing, and shooting and catching
most of our meat.

Buzzcut1
Nomad II
Nomad II
ok my eye are watering. I lost Annie my Bouvier last year, Jake my big Aussie and traveling companion is getting up there, Kozmo and Watson are still young. Yeah it breaks your heart every time one leaves but damn they do make life so much better for us while they are here. Sorry for your loss
2011 F350 6.7L Diesel 4x4 CrewCab longbed Dually, 2019 Lance 1062, Torqlift Talons, Fast Guns, upper and lower Stable Loads, Super Hitch, 48" Super Truss, Airlift loadlifter 5000 extreme airbags

dakonthemountai
Explorer
Explorer
You and Scooter were both blessed to have a wonderful life together. My dogs are my family (no human children) and I know only too well the pain when one leaves for Rainbow Bridge. Celebrate the life you had together and keep going! Scooter wants you too! ๐Ÿ™‚ You do, however have my heartfelt condolences, and I send you a little comforting ((hug))

Dak
2018 GMC Denali "Extreme" and 23' EVO 2050T Travel Trailer
Escapee member #224325-Since 1992

stickbowjoe
Explorer
Explorer
Oh man. I am with you, brother.

I ran over my Samson the day before we re-elected our President.

It was a tough 2 days for me.

Samson got tangled up in the cattle guard, and I squared him up with the duals.

A dachshund. No suffering. Squashed.

He was 12, deaf, and going blind from cataracts.

I am grateful I had his little sister Sally coming up. She was 2 then, 3 now.

She is a German Shorthair Pointer, and Samson taught her how to be a good dog.

We have mourned him together.

Joe
2012 Ram 3500 diesel, dually
2013 Lance 850
Pretty good truck, pretty good camper.
Just Sally (German Shorthair) and me,
full timing, and shooting and catching
most of our meat.

Super_Dave
Explorer
Explorer
We put our yellow lab down at Thanksgiving and have or 13 year old chocolate. Jake seemed to get a few years younger when Rio passed but we know his time can't be far out either. Everyone thinks we will get more dogs but the wife and I say we aren't.

Sorry for your loss.
Truck: 2006 Dodge 3500 Dually
Rig: 2018 Big Country 3155 RLK
Boat: 21' North River Seahawk

qtla9111
Nomad
Nomad
It also appears he had a great owner who took good care of him until the end and loved him very much. What more could man's best friend ask of the world? And to travel to boot!

Remember, our fur kids wait for us with wagging tails at the bridge. A reunion will take place someday! Sorry for your loss.
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2008 Funfinder 230DS
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