Most steps, and many slides, are powered from the CHASSIS battery and electrical system, and not the coach systems. This is to insure that even if you killed the coach batteries boondocking, you can easily get the steps retracted and the slide in when you start the engine.
Does your engine start? If you have a volt meter (even a free one from Harbor Freight) you can check the voltage of the CHASSIS battery with the engine running, should be about 13.8 up to 14.2
If the house batteries are not being charged from the engine's alternator, you probably have a bad relay. Quite common for them to burn up, as the manufacturers use the cheap 85 amp version rather than the much better 200 amp one. 200 amp has heavier contacxt plate which is tungsten silver plated, vs plain copper on the cheap one. Contacts burn up and no current gets to the coach batteries.
Also make sure the parking brake is set, asmy slide and I suspect most, require the brake to be set to operate the slide.
You should see similar voltages at the COACH batteries with the engine running.... this is without the shore power or generator.
If this is OK, then with every off, everything unplugged, etc, Measure the voltage of the COACH batteries, should be 12.3 or so if properly charged. plug in shore power and see if it rises to mid to high 13's. If not, you need to check the two big 30 amp pull out car type fuses in the 12 v fuse panel. If one or both are blown, this can be due to batteries being hooked up backwards momentarily.
Charles
'03 Ram 2500 CTD, 5.9HO six speed, PacBrake Exh Brake, std cab, long bed, Leer top and 2008 Bigfoot 25B21RB.. previously (both gone) 2008 Thor/Dutchman Freedom Spirit 180 & 2007 Winnebago View 23H Motorhome.