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Driving with a toddler to Tennessee

DinTulsa
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I'm planning on a rv trip in October, I have a 2.5 yo that requires a car seat. The way the rv is set up we really don't have a way to place him facing forward, the only couch that has seat belts has him facing sideways. Is there any other way to drive with him? What have you all found that works? I have taken him on a few close trips in the rv, but we are looking at a 10-14 hr drive.

Thanks
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DinTulsa
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Thanks for quick replies. It's good to see other people taking long trips with smaller kids. It gives me hope that all will be well. He loves camping and the outdoors and normally rides well. We will be loaded up with movies and take stops every couple of hours to let him play.

Healeyman
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navegator wrote:
We have twin grand kids not quite a year old so everything has to be doubled.


HERE are ours.

Tim

navegator
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If you have a dinnete there might be seat belts under the cushions, mine has four seat belts, only one adult can really use it or four kids, if the dinnete has belts and you can take the table off do so in case of an emergency you do not want the table dislodging and hitting the child.

Plan on more rest stops to give child a chance to get distracted a little, they are less crancky that way.

We have twin grand kids not quite a year old so everything has to be doubled.

navegator

Merrykalia
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We traveled to the Gulf Coast with our 2 yr old and 5 yr old for spring break one year. It was a little over a 10 hour drive. We were in a PU, pulling a TT. We left about 6 am, both children slept for 3 hrs, then we stopped for breakfast at a McD's with a playland. After about an hour, we were on the road again. We stopped for lunch at a rest area and fixed sandwiches and soup in the TT. We played ball, ran around, chased birds, did flips and cartwheels, and just got in some exercise. 1 1/2 hrs there and it was nap time. We stopped again at another rest area in the late afternoon for a break and we were there in early evening and stopped to pickup some dinner and set up the TT while the kids played and ate. We ate after the kids went down for the night!

We could not have made the trip without a DvD player and some movies. We used Sesame Street, Elmo, and other things that would keep our 2 year olds attention. (Not something I would do at home, but we were traveling and it was acceptable).

Also, when we stopped for food, we did not feed the children - we let them play! We did not do sit-down food anywhere because they (and we) had sat enough!! When we were back on the road, they ate their food. If they were asleep, we DID NOT stop for any reason. (I had a full bladder for about an hour and thought I was going to burst).

On the ride home, we did it in two days. We left later in the afternoon, stopped at a motel for the night so they could swim and then we headed out early the next morning so they slept for a while, then watched DVDs.

Hope you have a great time.
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magnusfide
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Do you have a banquette? Remove the cushions and check for seatbelts that might have slipped down below. Sometimes they slip into the storage area of the seat.

We traveled with grandson, age 2.5 by belting his car seat to the banquette belt facing backwards of course. We lowered the table to make room for the seat.

His mom and dad and Herself took turns riding beside him which allowed us to drive farther between stops. He did a lot of sleeping because of the vehicle motion.
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littlemo
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GrumpyandGrandma wrote:
Start out early and he should go back to sleep for the first few hours, We did that when our kids were little and when they woke up we would stop for breakfast.


This is what we always did when our kids were little. Start out in the "wee" hours of the morning and they slept and had less time to get bored. Hope you have DVD player with lots of movies too. LOL!

GrumpyandGrandm
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Start out early and he should go back to sleep for the first few hours, We did that when our kids were little and when they woke up we would stop for breakfast.
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tatest
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May not be quite that long, depending on where you are going. When my daughter lived in Nashville, I would make it to there from Bartlesville by 4 PM if I started at 8 AM. Memphis is about six hours, Knoxville about 12, all of this timing of course depending on what happens when you go through each major city.

Going to Nashville, if I split into two days, I would end up somewhere in the Delta country between Little Rock and Memphis. Little Rock is too soon to stop unless you get a very late start the first day, and when going to Nashville, once I get east of Memphis it is "I'm almost there, let's finish the trip today."

Seat positions. The only forward facing seat really designed to hold a forward facing toddler seat will be the right front. It may not be LATCH but will at least be belt and tether. You have to turn the air bag off, and it is still not as safe as center-rear in most cars, but at least the toddler won't be where so much of the house will collapse on top of him.

I used the dinette when my granddaughters were toddlers. We got a special small seat that worked with belt only, pulled out cushions and belted firmly against the seat framework. Not all are built that way, and I've not seen the seat we used sold anywhere here, my daughter got it in Europe where standards were different. One child facing rear, the other facing front. With enough height of seat structure and the child seat, a forward mounted toddler seat facing rear might be safer than facing front, certainly safer than facing sideways on a sofa where the seat might not mount firmly.

The girls were four when they started traveling in the RV. My grandson is turning three next month, I still don't think he is ready for long RV trips. He does much better in a car, particularly when with his cousins.

We also have him facing rearward, he is small, and my daughter wants to keep him there until absolutely too big for a rear facing seat. There is a huge downgrade in safety when the child is being restrained by straps across chest and belly, versus restraint by spine, neck and head against a full surface impact absorbing structure, with some comfort padding over it.

Putting a child in a motorhome is always a safety compromise, compared to traveling in a modern car or passenger truck with today's required safety equipment. Depending on collision forces, things will be flying around, furnishings can break loose, and the whole structure can collapse or shatter into pieces. Compromises in child safety seat position with respect to the seat manufacturer's recommendations are probably minor after the compromise you make by choosing to carry the child in a fragile box full of loose components and furnishings. You probably have to see a wrecked RV to understand this.
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DinTulsa
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Agreed....It will be broken down into 2-3 days. Staying at parks along the way.

LynnandCarol
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Oh my not sure about seat placement but 12 to 14 hours with a child that young needs to be broken down to shorter periods of time. That is almost more than an adult can stand and I am sure a two year old needs lots of breaks and shorter days.