The old legend about changing oil every 3,000 miles was created, in my opinion, first...back when oil was really crap, and second...a marketing tool for the oil manufacturers to sell more oil and service stations to get more business. Now with that said, I have still changed oil/filter in my vehicles at least every 5K miles. I figure that oil/filter is cheap compared to a new engine, so why not. It certainly can't hurt.
In your case, I seriously doubt that anything is wrong with the engine because they haven't changed the oil in 5K miles. Now, like someone else said, if it only went on short trips and never got the oil up to operating temp to burn off any condensation , then that may actually be a problem. But again, I highly doubt that there's anything wrong with it. Just change it now, with a new filter and keep on truckin'!!!
1999 Holiday Rambler Endeavor, 36' Gasser
Triton V10, Ford F53 Chassis
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