Thank you folks, so much! Please feel free to keep the ideas rolling :),
I had a long convo with a friend who knows vehicles better than I (though motorcycles, not trucks), and who has driven my van (loaded for travel). I told him all the things you all had suggested.
His response:
He thinks the leaf springs could very well be dead, even tho rear of van sits higher than front. He says they feel very mushy.
He reminded me of something I had forgotten to tell y'all, which is the van's tendency to set up an oscillation after it goes over a bump or a dip. It feels like the road goes up and down and up and down... but really it was just one bump and the van doing the rest on its own. This is with new, stiff shocks. It's especially bad if the bump is hit while cornering.
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I'm excited to have some ideas to try out! I do not think my tires are E rated. I thought LT's would be enough of an improvement over the P's it had when I bought it :).
I see that leaf springs and sway bars cost about the same. How do I evaluate the springs, other than how my van sits? I am wondering which to try first.
Reading van forums, I see the Hellwig sits above the differential, which is nice (I won't hit it on a rock), but there is some concern over whether/how to install it with a hitch. The Addco is slightly fatter, and sits below the differential.
As for my stalker, he is not an RVer, so I figure anyone who has been a member here for a few years is not him :).
3/4 timing in a DIY van conversion. Backroads, mountains, boondocking, sometimes big cities for a change of pace.