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โMay-24-2015 07:42 AM
tragusa3 wrote:
I debated whether to post the following thoughts, but decided I am among friends here! It is really a side topic, and I don't want to derail the trip report. Too much.
I realize that this trip has become much larger than a trip for us. It has been a year of planning, the journey itself, and finally, the six months of post production building videos and sharing on this forum. All of these experiences together add up to a chapter of our family story just below a new child, marriage, etc. It has done so in a way that I'm very thankful for, but my attempts at sharing our story expose a not so positive side. The trip has grown into something larger than life for me, but not for everyone around me. I'll cut to the chase...
After 100's of hours of working on the videos, I have become too sensitive of remarks from family when I mention that we want to share them. It feels like working years on a painting that no one wants to hang on their wall. As mentioned earlier, I was most excited to share with my parents. Well, my efforts haven't been received with the same excitement.
Let me describe. The whole family is here (13 people). We sit around the living room and everyone is busy with eyes glued to their phones. It's the new world we live in. People being so busy with the people they aren't with to give any attention to the people they are. It's a soap box topic for me, from which I'll stop now.
When we first showed up, I mentioned that we were excited to share the trip, and although its exciting, it was long. I suggested we watch little bits here and there. Eyes started rolling and my brother even said, "you must be crazy if you think I'm sitting for that". That isn't a big deal, he could leave the room for all I care, but my parents had a similar body language. So I dropped it. Two days later, as I sat watching everyone catch up with the real mistress of their lives (Facebook), I decided to ask again..."let's watch just one chapter". My dad says, "how long is that, because I'm tired". Apparently, when you're tired, you can watch video of hamster running on a wheel, and the latest in cat pictures from strangers, but you can't watch...well, you see where I'm going.
So here I am, several days in to our visit, and haven't shown one piece of our trip. No one has asked anything about it.
I grew up in a family where parents and grandparents doted over every little thing that the younger generations did. I expected that my parents would want to see all the adventures their grandsons had been on? I thought they couldn't wait, just like we couldn't wait to show them? I thought a lot of things that just aren't reality.
I went to bed last night, deciding that we aren't mentioning another word about it. Yes, I have become sensitive to a fault. I don't expect most people to be interested, but when my "target audience" puts me at least one notch below unicorns and rainbows, my feelings are hurt.
Even though I'm a grown man, I am recognizing that making parents proud is still important.
Anyway, that's that. The most awesome home movies that have ever been created will go into the vault. They are precious to us, and worth every moment making them, even if they aren't seen by anyone else. I just need to remember to be thankful for you guys and bring my iPad next time we visit, so I have something to do.
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โApr-08-2015 04:12 AM
tragusa3 wrote:
... We are going to use 3 weeks of summer to also travel the South Carolina Coast, but that is a local trip.
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โJan-09-2015 06:46 AM
โJan-08-2015 09:45 AM
tragusa3 wrote:
The Road Home: Part 1
I can't say this without hurting someone's feelings, but why anyone would chose to live in this area is beyond me. It seemed that you were at least a 10 hour drive from anything remotely interesting.
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