I towed a Kia Sedona minivan using a lube pump for a while. Seriously toyed with the idea then, of idling it instead of using the pump, but ultimately chose not to. If the vehicle had been as old as yours, I doubt I would've spent the $$ to put a lube pump on it, I probably woulda tried idling it. I do remember reading about one person on here that did this (idling), and it worked great for him.
Yes, you use up a little fuel while towing, but you can buy a LOT of fuel for what it'll cost to put in a Remco lube pump!
The questions you have to ask, get answered before you do this, is: Will idling your particular engine, transmission while towing cause any issues for engine or transmission? Like already said, just 'cause one particular case or two this works OK, does not mean it will for your Town and Country van.
I would try to find a transmission specialist, someone that has a lot of working knowledge with the particular transmission you have, and ask their opinion. Try to find out specifically, if engine idling with tranny in neutral will cause fluid to be pumped through the transmission. I wouldn't just assume that it is, I'd verify such, even if that means disconnecting a hose from the tranny cooler briefly to verify, while engine is running and its in neutral.
I would then check with somone (maybe Chrysler dealer service tech?) that knows your engine well, too, and see if they think extensive idling for this engine would cause a problem or not? There probably are some engines for which this would not be a good idea, but I do think most modern, computer controlled engines should be OK with this, provided you keep an eye on it, which leads to next point:
Assuming you still want to do this, next thing you have to do is figure out some way to monitor whats going on with the van engine while towing. If it starts to overheat, shuts off, runs low on gas, etc. you need to know about it immediately, so you can pull over before something tears up. I'm thinking some kind of wireless camera you could attach with a strap to the driver seat, aimed at the dashboard, and put the monitor for such up on the MH dash, so you can see the van's dashboard while driving, and make sure engine is running, idling OK, not overheating, etc.? Or, if you wanted to get real extravagant with it, maybe hook up an OBD monitor to the van, and run the wires from it up to the MH, so you have full OBD monitoring for the van up on the dashboard of the MH?
๐As you might be able to tell, I seriously considered doing this. Ultimately decided not to and went with a lube pump, but almost wish I HAD gone the idling route, 'cause the lube pump thing was very expensive and didn't work out for me, anyway, for various reasons. Eventually, I quit towing that vehicle, and got one that is flat towable from the factory. Made things sooooo much easier then.
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