We just equipped an '08 Wrangler Unlimited X for a tow up to AK. We selected the Blue Ox, tow bar and base plate, and use the Mopar wiring harness that sets up the jeep for towing lights without modifications. Used M&G brakes because I wanted to utilize the MH's air braking system to keep things simple.
The BlueOx setup was super easy to hook up/disconnect, and the mopar harness did its job. The air braking system was silly easy to use too, one hose-two quick disconnects. The whole setup took a real beating on the 11,000 mile trip and other than some scuffed up paint on the tow bar, there doesn't seem to be any sign of fatigue.
With regard to the installation: I think selecting a guy who is familiar with the equipment, authorized by the manufacturer, and does the installations every day for a living, is the way to go.
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