Turn for the worse

[campn4walleye]

As you know, Buddy Blue was diagnosed with metastatic CA in Sept. We kept him comfortable with pain meds and promised if it got worse, we would end his suffering.

Suddenly, his rt jowl thickened even worse than before and he was drooling thick mucus and had it in his eyes as well. He couldn't drink or eat without difficulty.

After discussion with the vet, we decided we could no longer be selfish. We had to let him go. It was so hard. I cannot believe that I could cry so much. DH is devastated. To make it easier on him, I went alone. They were inseparable.

The vet was so compassionate and didn't hurry me. She sat on the floor with me for an hour while I held him and sobbed. I told her funny stories about his life and am still tearing up as I write this.

He was a darling who was our best friend. He's at peace now, but I miss him so. Duncan still wanders the house looking for him and checks the yard to see if he's returned. It's heartbreaking. He's never been alone...ever. Any suggestions?

Thanks for listening to me. I know you all understand how I feel. Give your babies a hug and kiss in memory of Buddy Blue, the best friend ever.

Here is a picture when he was 2 in Germany.

[NW22]

So very sorry to hear about your Buddy Blue.

I know what its like - we had to do the same thing about 2 years ago now.

Time is a great healer. Take care.

[CA_POPPY]

Be assured, you are among people who understand. I'm so sorry, but those words sound so empty. What a vet! So rare is the one who understands owners the way they understand dogs. RIP Buddy Blue. You were loved, and you knew it.

[nabi]

Buddy Blue knew he was loved...the most loving thing was done for him by you and he knew it....I am sitting here in tears, I know the pain you are in...time is a great healer but we never get that little piece of our heart back...hugs...

[brewjaz]

You've already been given good advice--more attention to Duncan and giving a rescue dog a chance at a wonderful life.....there are so many put down every year because of not enough homes. So I will just say how sorry I am to hear of your loss...it's SO tough; they are a member of the family.

[RBak]

I'm so sorry for you and Duncan. Hopefully you will both heal emotionally as time passes. Caring thoughts are sent to you from us,

Rita and her furry ones
Andy the sheltie and Nicky the horse

[colliehauler]

dspencer wrote:
I'm so truly sorry for your loss. I unfortunately know your pain all too well.

I have to agree. When it's time Duncan and you might be able to help another rescue.

To help Duncan take him on long walks and extra love. This and time will help both of you heal.

[Victory402]

So sorry for your loss. We feel your pain.

[dturm]

Really tough time for everyone, sorry you have to go through it but really respect your decision and timing.

Give Duncan special attention hugs. Make sure he keeps active, go for walks and play time (it will help all of you). If things are not getting better in a few days, contact your vet and ask about an anti-depressant for him. Sometimes it eases the grief and speeds the recovery in individuals that have a sensitive nature.

Doug, DVM

[hawkhill]

I am so very sorry for your loss. It will hurt for awhile, but eventually you will be able to reminisce over the good times with Buddy Blue with only happiness and no pain. He no longer feels any discomfort, but is playing like a puppy over the Rainbow Bridge.

[magnusfide]

Tearing up with you. I'm sorry for your loss. Buddy will be in your hearts forever.

When you're ready, I think Buddy and Duncan both would appreciate you giving another dog a chance at the great life you give to them. The Humane Society has some affectionate rescues as well as local animal shelters.

[dspencer]

I'm so truly sorry for your loss. I unfortunately know your pain all too well.

[Oasisbob]

Been there and done that as they say. Very sorry for your loss. Cuts deep. After about a year we got another dog and she is great. So give it time and recall the good. Best wish's