Update on Ann

[loulou57]

For all those who gave genuine comments of concern and those who contacted me directly, I thought I would just let you know....

....Ann found a companion. Someone who she has known for years. Both couples have known each other since high school. His wife died not long after Ann lost her husband. They got talking after church and realized that they were both looking for the same thing. A companion no romance for a trip west in a RV. Well, they are looking at units and have planned their trip to suit both. All expenses, duties and expectations have been clearly defined. To hear them talk about this trip, they sound like a couple of kids from the 70's heading west in a volkswagon van painted with daisies.
We are both pleased and relieved, still concerned ss though we were parents letting their teenage daughter head out. They both understand each other and are prepared to deal with whatever arises.

Thanks again for concerns.

[loulou57]

Thanks for all the responses. I will pass them on. I told Ann a computer is a must for her now and she should join the forum. She said that right now she has so much on her mind she would when she is settled.
I really hopes this works. Ann needs this trip. I think it is so she can have closure. Not that she is dismissing her late hubby but being able to find some peace in her heart and the ability to live. I think it will help both of them since they have had the same loss at the same time. They can relate to each other and I would think be able to respect those moments when they are still grieving and need their own space at the same time however, needing the support of each other.

[monkey44]

IN a year, they'll be married and living happily ever after in the RV, and full-timing. 🙂 🙂 🙂

[Okie_in_Wyoming]

What a GREAT solution! I know her safety and happiness were of concern for you but sounds like she has hit on a good answer! Not traveling with a stranger, rules/wants/wishes set down and agreed on so now all they have to do is hit the road!
Thank you for the update, as others said it is sure nice to hear how things work out.
Please keep us informed on their trip. Would love to hear how they are doing and the fun they are having!
Happy Trails to them and you!
Okie

[joe_b_]

I met a woman and two men, in a similar situation on the Spit in Homer Alaska, a couple of years back. She and her husband owned a very nice DP, either a CC or a Beaver, don't remember which, at the time her husband died. The three, it turned out, lived in the same retirement community, in Arizona and had mutual acquaintances. She let her friends know she was looking for a travel companion as she wasn't comfortable operating the DP. So the two guys, separately contacted her and they worked out an arrangement, to travel together and share daily costs of food, fuel, etc. She appeared to be a woman of money and she told me the DP was paid for, so money wasn't a real issue with her. The three kept their homes in the retirement community and 3 or 4 times a year, would travel together, sometimes all three and other times just her and one of the guys. They had toured the NE the previous summer and decided to go to Alaska. In talking with all three, it seemed to work for them. They were people in their 60s I would guess.

[coolbreeze01]

Good news. I was hoping she wouldn't fall for an old guy wearing gold chains, owning nothing but Corvette payments.

[John_Joey]

I never read the original post, so I'm seeing only half a story here. Sounds like everyone is very encouraging (which is a good thing) but I hope both people have an exit plan prior to taking off.

Living in an RV away from family and friends (support network) can create unique challenges. I always tell people that the lifestyle is not all "rainbows and sunshine" like most think it would be. Both people would be prudent to set down some rules to what would happen if one decides that the lifestyle isn't for them.

[FunnyCamper]

thanks for the update. it is always nice to hear 'what happened after' when ya read an original post. the update is great to read.

best of luck to her. hope she finds ton of fun out there!!!

[NCWriter]

I really enjoyed your original post and this update. Now you have to get Ann to keep you advised regularly by email as their trip gets underway....and then tell us. It would be fun to hear how it all works out. What they buy, where they go, etc.

[rhagfo]

Sure sounds like things worked for both of them. I am sure they will have a great trip.

[Mountain_Mama]

That's wonderful!!! Wishing them a great, safe trip!! God works in mysterious ways!

[Jay_Pat]

Thanks for the update!
Pat

[gbopp]

I'm glad it worked out for everyone. They will have a great trip.
Thanks for sharing.

[ReneeG]

I don't know Ann, but am happy for her and the new traveling companion. What a wonderful story and happy ending for both. The strongest relationships/marriages are those that began as a friendship.

[oldtrojan66]

Don't know anyone involved, but it sure makes you wonder if someone got their prayers answered in spite of what everyone else thought!?! Not flaming, and kudos to everyone for their patience and concerns. Bless them both on their trip of a lifetime.